What are the 3 biggest relationship mistakes that women tend to make while in love that drive men away? Read this blog to find out
Maintaining a relationship for years requires heaps of patience and understanding. Every relationship goes through its fair share of struggles and tests with time. Both individuals grow together in life with each other in a relationship, learning new ways of showing the care and love that they hold in their hearts for each other.
Our team at Wedding Affair has created a list of the 3 biggest relationship mistakes that women tend to make when they are in love. Read below to know more and avoid the chances of sabotaging your relationship with your partner.
Solving Problems Your Partner Doesn’t Have
A natural tendency when we love someone is to help them solve their problems and take all their worries away from their life. It’s a very thoughtful and kind gesture that women in love tend to do for their partners but the place where they go wrong is making assumptions about their partner’s problems. There is a higher chance of your efforts going unnoticed by your partner as it may not be that big of a problem for them in the first place. As a result, it can only lead to exhaustion and disappointment for you.
So, the solution to making this one of the biggest relationship mistakes is to do something that your partner is truly going to appreciate and cherish in return. It will save you from most of the mental exhaustion.
Having Unrealistic Expectations
It’s considerate and thoughtful to have your expectations fulfilled without having to ask for it from your partner in the first place. Having a partner who just naturally puts effort into making you feel special and seen every day is a basic necessity that every woman in her life needs and deserves. As kind as it sounds and looks, women tend to make one of the biggest relationship mistakes by overthinking the whole situation and assuming the worst when their expectations are not met by their partner. Women need to find a balance between voicing their expectations to their partner and feeling disappointed when the silent expectations are not met.
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Expecting Mind Reading in Love
This biggest relationship mistake can be associated with the second mistake only that many women tend to make in love. Many women are prone to having those hopeless romantic delusional fantasies in their minds about their partners having the unnatural power of mind reading on them.
Believing that mind reading is a sign of love, women tend to have these high expectations from their partners about wanting the same things at the same time by reading their minds, because they want their partners to remember every little thing about them and want them to make them feel special without having to ask for it. Well, men are anything but mind readers and this level of romanticisation of every little thing is nothing but a recipe for tiring fights and sleepless nights.
One Solution to All Three Problems
All the above three biggest relationship problems stem from only one reason- expectations, and the silent treatment that women are very prone to giving to their partners on not having those expectations met only worsens the situation. So, ladies calm your overthinking down and communicate your expectations verbally and healthily to your partner. And we know, the love language of a woman is to ‘not having to ask for it’, but ask for it, because you deserve it.
You need to practise patience and love in teaching your partner all the ways you want to be cherished by him. And if your man loves you, he will go leaps and beyond to learn your love language to love you the way you want and most importantly, the way you deserve!
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So, ladies, that’s it! This is all it takes to get your relationships to keep going and healthy for years- Communication. Say what you want, you deserve it!
