Couples Alert: Is your relationship based on LUST ?

Alex Iby

Head over heels in love with a guy or a damsel and just can’t wait to see him or her every day? Both of the sexes can’t bide one’s time to be together? You are always looking forward to getting hands down dirty with him. While he leaves you thinking about all that he did for the whole day making you long for more each time you meet or vice versa. Or are you confounding between love and lust? Do you find it flummoxing to understand the true state of your relationship? To decipher the real status of all the fantasies that you harbour about your relationship. Here are some heart-breaking signs to alert you for the love-lust scuffle.

Your partner won’t bring up friends and family

Those whose feelings towards you are heavily inclined towards lust, are not serious about you. They just love your body yearning for physical satisfaction.There is no emotional connection. Which is why they don’t explore the possibility of talking about their friends and family with you. Nor will they ever make it a point to introduce them to you and vice versa. He who loves you will never keep you a secret. Though he may try and keep the relationship private, both of which are separate things.

Couple in lust
Christian Fregnan

Friendship is not the foundation of the relationship

Friendship forms a very strong foundation of relationships that are based on love. When you love someone, you tend to be more like friends, hanging out together, sharing jokes, being there for each other and respecting the differences that you have. Without friendship, it is almost a master-slave relationship where the slave is only made to fulfill the whims and fancies of the master. If you only meet your partner almost on an appointment basis just to have sex and have nothing to do with each other right after you are done, then you are probably in a lusty relationship that lacks anything close to love.

There is no emotional transfer, only mechanical activity

When two people are in love, sex is more than just a physical act. You can feel the love in his touch, the way he caresses you, the way he kisses you, how he respects your opinions and what he does to give you the equal amount of satisfaction that he expects from you. If it’s lust, you will only find yourself giving more. Your needs will not be taken seriously. 

Lost in lust
Mike Lloyd

They fail to look you in the eye

It is truly said that eyes are the window to one’s soul. When someone loves you, they will look you in the eye. You can feel all their emotions just by the way they gaze at you. It actually tells you the kind of feelings they have for you. Those that have a lusty feel towards you, will concentrate more on your private body parts.Their eyes will always wonder in a manner that will show their sexual affinity towards you. Instead, a partner who loves you tends to look you in the eye more instead of stealing glances in between your conversations.

There is no conversation about the future

If your relationship is solely based on lust, your partner won’t really talk about a future together. Those who are in love have a tendency to be possessive about each other and they weave dreams together. It is difficult for them to think of a future without the presence of the person they love. So, if you cannot give your thousand percent to plan a future inclusive of career goals, family plans, work schedule, personal interests, etc, then probably you must part away from that lusty wheezing. 

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