Between the sheets, with all the endless stroking of the disrobed skins feeling each other’s divine presence, binding heart to heart connections, you are his queen and he is your king. The golden rule of intimacy is to feel each other’s importance and spark in each other’s life with showers of pure love and euphoria. Sometimes the build-up to sex can be just as, or even more enjoyable than the act itself. From the passion, suspense and anticipation of what’s to come, foreplay could be exciting and exhilarating for both partners. Whether you’re a novice or a seasoned pro, here are some exciting moves to propel your partner’s fantasies wild, ladies!
- When your man has had a long day at work, purvey him some stress relief in the form of a sensual head massage. The scalp is a rest home to many sexual stimulation spots, so let your hands tenderly fondle him with leisurely circular movements and hear him moan with elation. Once you are done with the scalp, sensually work your way towards the neck and shoulders area until you set hands on the trouser department, which is when the fun really commences.
- Nothing turns a guy on more than being teased whilst knowing that he cannot have you there and then. During your dinner date or night at the movies, use your hand to gently stroke his thigh with slow, firm movements up towards his groin. Let the foreplay begin. Feel his erection grow and leave him longing for the bill to arrive or for the film to finish so that he can whisk you home and into the bedroom where you can truly drive him non-compos mentis.
- During sex, eye contact can be very erotic while adding a sense of greater passion to the moment. Similarly, during foreplay, you can use the same technique to flagellate your man into a frenzy. Most people close their eyes while kissing but try keeping the eyes open to hold fast to that eye contact. And here comes foreplay. Next, move your hands down to his lunch box, while still holding your partner’s contemplation as you stimulate him simultaneously.
- The sight of a woman, scantily clad and moving around in a provocative fashion is bound to drive any guy wild, even more so if it’s the woman he loves. Drive him crazy during foreplay. The first step is to make sure you have selected your sexiest lingerie from the drawer, make sure to wear something that is easy to remove when the time is right to take things to the bedroom. Once you have chosen your sexiest outfit, put on some sensual music with a strong baseline and let your striptease routine begin.
- Not one for the timid, self-masturbation in front of your partner can seem like a daunting, if not slightly embarrassing act. However, it does not have to be. Turn the lights down low, strip down to your underwear and start slowly caressing your breasts whilst passionately kissing your partner. This alone should be enough to bring on his boner almost immediately.
- Starting at his lips, move your way around to his cheek and then over to his left ear during a passionate kiss. Blow lightly on his lobes before nibbling, sucking or licking them gently to increase the stimulation. Gently move your way back to his lips and then make your way to the opposite ear. The ear lobes have hundreds of nerve endings and are considered an erogenous zone, so this coquettish machination is sure to give him a thrill. This is quite underrated foreplay.
- Take the opportunity to whisper him some naughtiness to really propel him insane. By simply telling him that you want him now or that you cannot wait to get home with him, will do the trick and leave him wanting more. Including sex, talk can really heighten sexual tension during initial foreplay as well as increased passion during sex later on.