Want to make a good impression on your future in-laws? Then, follow these tips on what to say while meeting your partner’s parents.
Ah, the day that you have dreaded and anticipated in equal parts has finally arrived! Your heart probably must be pounding at an ungodly speed, and your hands must be clammy from all the sweating. We understand that meeting your partner’s parents for the first time is a big step in any relationship. And the first impression that you will make during that is either going to make it or break it for you!
Chill out, sweetheart! To help you get out of this situation unscathed (not literally, lol!), our team at Wedding Affair has created a cheat sheet that you can follow to sweep your partner’s parents off their feet with your irresistible charm, just like you did with their precious child!
Instead of saying “Nice house,” say “I love the way your home makes me feel welcome.”
I mean, anybody can fling out a bland “nice house,” what is so memorable about this statement? But noticing the feel of their space is an indication of your emotional intelligence and genuineness. You’re not looking at the walls — you’re looking at the heart that resides behind them.
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Instead of saying “What do you do?”, ask “What are you passionate about these days?”
You may now wonder what the harm is in asking a simple What do you do? Well, ditch the ordinary society conventions and instead ask a question that reflects your inner curiosity and shows that you care.
Instead of saying “We’re just hanging out,” say “I’m so lucky to be with your child.”
I mean, if we have to tell you the reason behind why not to say the former statement while meeting your partner’s parents, maybe you really don’t belong here. But, considering the fact that you have already read the above two points, we are assuming you are pretty down for your lover. So, darling, the gist of this whole big paragraph is just that don’t ever let the parents of your partner think that you are not serious about their child. Because, you know it damn well, anything casual about your attitude towards the relationship is going to be the perfect recipe for your relationship’s downfall. So, beware of that!
Say “Family means so much to me” instead of “My parents are so different”
We know, competitiveness is not an ugly spirit in real life, but in relationships, it definitely should take a back seat. So, avoid comparing the relationship dynamics between your partner’s parents with your own and save yourself tons of stress. Comparisons can feel sharp-edged and unintendedly critical. Instead, affirm the importance of family in your life — weaving a soft bridge between their world and yours.
Instead of “Sorry, I’m nervous,” say “I’ve been looking forward to meeting you.”
We get it that nerves are natural, and you are allowed to feel nervous about meeting your partner’s parents for the first time. But, just this instance, get a grip on yourself and let excitement lead the dance. Enthusiasm is far more charming than anxiety!
Parting Tip:
If you ever get in doubt on what to speak next, try expressing yourself with utmost honesty, gentleness, sincerity, and full of wonder. They will definitely see the love shining through you, and it will be impossible for them not to be touched by your genuine efforts.
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At last, don’t forget, sweetheart, meeting the parents isn’t some test but an invitation to take a little further step into the heart of the love of your life. Be kind in the way you speak, listen with passion, and the rest will follow. Believe us, you’ve got this!
