Marriage is a beautiful journey, but not always an easy one. Learn the common mistakes newlyweds make to avoid them.
Marriage is undoubtedly one of the most, if not the most, exciting chapters in one’s life. After the never-ending celebrations and the sacred vows being exchanged, the time to finally live as a married couple comes. While it all may seem dreamy and exciting at the beginning, the truth is far from it. Newlyweds often make some mistakes that they are not always prepared for.
The first few months, or the honeymoon period makes it difficult to see through the problems, which is how it should be. But in order to have a happy and smooth marriage, one needs to be just a little extra cautious of a few things that can go wrong right after getting married. To help you with that, team Wedding Affair has listed 6 most common mistakes newlyweds make that you can avoid. Keep reading to find out.
Not Prioritising Communication
In any relationship, communication is a key to success. One of the biggest mistakes newlyweds make is to assume that their partner can read their minds. It is never like that. Especially in the beginning of the relationship when everything is new and fresh, you need to put that little bit of extra effort in communicating your thoughts, needs and concerns to your partner. Be it the seemingly trivial issues like household chores or deeper issues like emotional fulfilment, talk it out and listen to your partner when they do.
Not Giving Personal Space
Yes, the honeymoon phase cannot be compared with anything else. You two are always together, doing every little thing hands in hand. But spending every waking minute with your spouse can result in ignoring your personal space. Put aside your quality time now and often and practice things that you enjoy doing by yourself, which includes an interest, a hobby or meeting friends. Respect each other’s personal space for a healthy relationship.
Avoiding Financial Conversations
Money is often the most neglected conversation topic among newlyweds, when ironically, it is a major stress point in any relationship. What you may fail to understand is that you should discuss your finances early on if you want to avoid facing significant disagreements in the future. Discuss about your spending habits, saving goals and debts. Be completely honest and set a joint financial goal as a couple.
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Unrealistic Expectations
Another of the common mistakes newlyweds make is to have unspoken and unrealistic expectations from their partner. We, as human beings, often fail to realise that it is not possible, or fair, to expect everything from one person. Newlyweds tend to think of their partners as perfect through the rose tinted glass and expect them to meet all their social, emotional and recreational needs. It is important to learn to compromise and be grounded. Accept your partner’s “human” side and avoid unnecessary tension.
Avoiding Intimacy
A lot of times, especially when couples know each other for a long time before marriage, many newlyweds make the mistake of taking the relationship for granted. Life can get busy and intimacy takes a backseat. But remember one thing, getting married is one thing, but maintaining one is a completely different story. Give equal attention to emotional and physical intimacy. Plan date nights, show affection regularly and keep making effort like you did before winning their hands.
Not Setting Boundary for Family
Indian marriages are never between two people, it is always between two families. And more than often, this statement becomes quite too literal. Families are an important part of your married life, it is a great thing to have supportive in-laws who will be there when you need. But it is also important to set your boundaries about how much they can interfere in between you two. Your primary commitment should be your spouse, never forget that. Create your own boundaries that both you and your partner are comfortable with.
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Remember, marriage is not a destination but a journey. Hold each other’s hands and walk together in this beautiful way ahead.
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