Let us burst the sex myths you have believed for so long.
One of the most misunderstood topics out there is sex. Ironically one of the most curious topics out there is also sex. All of us have been there when we have tried to learn about sex, hidden from the world’s eyes. This hide-and-seek game leads us to places where we get a lot of confusing and wrong information about sex. Be it the dark corner of the internet, inexperienced friends or any other unreliable sources, sex myths have been passed down for generations now. It gives birth to not only unnecessary fear and confusion but also unrealistic expectations which are bound to lead to disappointment in real life.
It’s time we set the record straight. Here are the top 10 sex myths and the truths behind them, curated by Team Wedding Affair.
1. Myth: Size Matters the Most
Truth: Size is not the most important thing in sex. Men often worry that it’s all about the sizes, but the truth is that sexual satisfaction depends on a lot of things that are far more important than a few inches. Proper techniques, an emotional connection and good communication are much more pleasurable for women.
2. Myth: Women Don’t Enjoy Visuals
Truth: Women enjoy visual adult content as much as men do. A significant number of women seek out erotica that caters to their preferences and interests. It’s just the pornography industry mostly caters to male audiences, which is why it seems that women are not a part of it, which is just another of the sex myths.
3. Myth: Men Get Ready for Sex Faster Than Women
Truth: While it is true that a high level of testosterone in men helps them with their arousal, they are not always in the mood to have sex. Similarly, women don’t “dislike” sex. Libido is impacted by factors like stress, emotional fatigue and medical conditions; not a person’s sex.
4. Myth: The ‘Pull-out Method’ is Reliable for Birth Control
Truth: Bursting one of the most common sex myths, the ‘pull-out method’ may reduce the risk of getting pregnant, but it is not at all foolproof. In fact, pre-ejaculatory fluid can contain sperm. Using condoms or other contraceptive methods is far more effective.
5. Myth: You Can’t Get Pregnant During Your Period
Truth: having sex during your period can still result in pregnancy, even though the chances are relatively lower. Sperm can live inside the body for up to five days and it can fertilise your egg if you have a smaller menstrual cycle or ovulation happens early.
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6. Myth: Only Men Have Performance Anxiety
Truth: Women also experience sexual performance anxiety. It can be related to appearance, body image, performance or even about past trauma. It’s not uncommon for women to experience this sort of anxiety which impacts their performance in bed.
7. Myth: Every Time You Should Have an Orgasm
Truth: while reaching orgasm feels great, every time getting there is nothing but another one of the common sex myths. In fact, focusing too much on the climax can put pressure on and worsen the experience.
8. Myth: Masturbation Decreases Sexual Performance
Truth: Masturbation is completely normal and a healthy way to deal with sexual needs. It can be helpful in learning about your own body, reducing stress and improving confidence in bed.
9. Myth: Older People Don’t Have Sex
Truth: Many older people remain sexually active. In fact, knowing your partner for long creates a certain comfort and familiarity that can work up your libido within a short time.
10. Myth: Sex Should Always be Spontaneous
Truth: Sex can be spontaneous or can be thoroughly planned. Good sex often requires effort, communication and planning beforehand to avoid stress or mismanagement of time.
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Sex myths create unnecessary confusion and harmful expectations. Busting these misconceptions, we can cultivate healthier attitudes towards relationships and intimacy. Let us know any sex myths you’ve heard that we missed. Follow Wedding Affair for more such content.
