Sexting is an art, and you can be an artist. It’s not that difficult, keep reading to find out more.
If you are struggling to get an orgasm with masturbation or having difficulties being turned on by yourself, or if you are in a long-distance relationship trying to keep things spicy, you might need the help of ‘sexting’. A few things are hotter than a good sexting session. It might sound simple—all about sending flirty texts and getting into action—but well, it’s not only that. There are ways to improve your sexting skills and make your sex life even better.
Team Wedding Affair has reached out to experts to get the best sexting tips for you to make your love life spicier and sexier. Here we go–
First Things First: Consent
Consent is a non-negotiable at any form of sex, and sexting is no different. Even if it is someone you have sexted with before, you should make sure that they are on the same page at that point. They can be busy or in a situation where things can get awkward. Make sure you say something before sharing an explicit photo out of nowhere. Asking for consent can be a fun way to tease your partner before hitting things up.
If you are on the other end, where you need to deny someone or tell them that you are not feeling comfortable, remember it is absolutely okay to do so. Always remember that you can evoke consent at any point of time.
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Privacy Should Never Be Compromised
With the consent of sexting comes the responsibility of maintaining each other’s privacy. Do not ever share with others what your partner has sent you during intimate times. This includes photos, videos as well as any information like fantasies, kinks or personal experiences.
Similarly, if you are sending your photos and videos, make sure you truly trust your partner to respect your privacy. Just because a stranger is hot doesn’t mean you can send them nudes without thinking of possible outcomes. Use messaging apps that allow you to send one-time-view photos and don’t let anyone take a screenshot for added safety.
Be Enthusiastic, It’s Sexy
I know, the “air of mystery” is pretty hot. But sexting is not really the right time to be aloof and mysterious. In fact, you need to show your appreciation to your partner and your enthusiasm to spice things up over the phone to make the sexting session one to remember. It’s very hot when you show, or text in this case, how much you want them.
Sexting can make people feel nervous and vulnerable, especially because they can’t see your body language or hear your tone. Sometimes you need to show some extra care in the texts you send to make sure that they know that you are hot for them. Use emojis, some exclamation marks and some adverbs to show your appreciation. It’s out to turn the heat up.
Learn Each Other’s Lust Language
You know your partner’s love language? Great. Now you need to learn their lust language if you want to have a steamy and sweaty sexting session. Learn what turns your partner on and how to use them in texts. Do they like to be called certain nicknames in bed? Do they have certain fantasies? Then call them that name and elaborate on how you would have fulfilled their fantasy if you were with them. Don’t shy away from the details, baby!
Pictures Are Important, Just Not as Much as You Think
Sexting without any imagery can be 100% pleasurable if you know your partner well and are good with your words. If you are not comfortable with sharing any explicit photos, you don’t have to. If you are worrying about your photos being Instagram worthy, remember that you have to be neither a Shakespeare nor a Victoria’s Secret Angel to master sexting. A simple photo in your t-shirt or pajamas can be extremely sexy. So, don’t worry about the sexy lingerie or the right lighting and just have fun!
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Enjoy the weekend and relieve some stress with a hot and spicy sexting session. Trust me, you can do it.
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