These are the Magical Ingredients of a perfect marriage

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Most young people marry in haste and repent in leisure as they start to realise the fact that their partner was not the best choice for them. Marriage has always been treated as a goalpost and changing your status from “single” to “happily married” is equivalent to being settled. Marriages need to be handled with care and requires emotional investment by both the partners for the relationship to grow.

Marriage should be based on true love and mutual respect. There will be days when you will thank your stars and there will be days when you would want to call it quits. Remember that no fight should be more important than your bond. Relationships are rarely ideal, the two of you have to work towards making it perfect. Here are the magical ingredients of a perfect marriage.

Friendship

A partner who can be your best friend, a friend who will stand by you through thick and thin, someone who never judges you for the person you are and always supports and motivates you when you require it, is a person who is worthy to be called your partner. Marriage should be based on friendship

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Respect & Trust

Respect and trust are the pillars of a strong marriage. Your partner should be secure enough to respect you and your opinions. They should acknowledge the fact that you are an individual capable of making your own decisions and not an entity he has gained in marriage. Respecting the fact that you need your own personal space to grow as an individual is a must. Being considerate and kind-hearted always wins extra brownie points.

Loyalty

A loyal and honest person who is worthy of your trust and values you as a partner is worth taking the marriage vows with. Every individual wants to be treated as an equal. With equality comes dividing responsibilities including household chores. Yes, your man should not shy away from doing the laundry with you. Along with being loyal and honest, you and your partner should be able to accept each other with your respective quirks.

Balance

A man who knows how to balance his family and his married life. There are a lot of men who are exemplary boyfriends but not as good as husbands. One of the main reasons behind this failure is that they are not able to maintain a parity between his parents and his wife, leaving each and everyone involved discontented. If a woman is facing problems with her in-laws her husband should be the one to iron out any differences and handle the situation with tact. This goes a long way in maintaining a peaceful environment at home.

Intelligence

Intelligence and a rational approach towards life is also something that attracts a lot of people. An individual who understands the highs and lows of life and has the courage to face them is the one everyone desires.

Positivity & Humour

A little positivity and humour won’t harm either. After having a hard day at work and being able to laugh together won’t only be a stress buster. But will also bring the couple closer and make the home a cheery and harmonious place to live in. Partners should also be game for pursuing each other’s hobbies and interests. 

Also Read: Avoid these Red Zones to keep your relationship healthy

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