Thinking Sex? Think Vanilla Sex over BDSM

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Photo Credits (Gawker.com)
Photo Credits (Gawker.com)

Sounds familiar or alien? Not sure what you know about vanilla sex, but I definitely had no clue about this term. Vanilla sex is just a fancy phrase to say conventional or simple sex, which does not involve an element of role-play, BDSM, kink, fetishness or any use of sex-toys. The name is inspired by vanilla extract which has a basic flavoring. In any relationship, if a partner enjoys the joy of conventional love-making, they are termed as vanilla partners. Talking in terms of Häagen-Dazs, there are people who won’t mind the rocky road, but if they’d be honest, they’d choose vanilla.

Beginner’s Tip Off

If you’re a beginner, you should start with the basics, not letting the kink society influence you. Besieged by the role-play sucker generation, the quintessence of composed sexual endeavors has faded. Faded so badly, that vanilla sex is trumpeted to be boring. If you’re lovers and you’ve thought of delving into role-play before foreplay, then we are afraid if you’d be able to strengthen your bond. The mainstream media discovers kinky sex after every 10 years and this time the discovery is credited to the internet, smartphones and a million sold copies of 50 Shades of Grey.

The kink’s less-sensational sister-vanilla is being quietly escaped by the think kink media and that’s how the essence of vanilla sex is on the verge of evanescing. There’s so much kink demand round the generation developing constant performance pressure, making it difficult for the oh-so romantic people to roll under the sheets.

Is Foreplay a part of Vanilla Sex?

As vanilla sex is all about the settled missionary position, you can bring other body-to-body positions in action for some variations. And in case you’re wondering, if foreplay is a part of vanilla sex, then the answer is, yes! No sex should begin without foreplay because that is what gets you started, until you’ve thought of using lubrications.

Once you get into digging the power of conventional sex, you’ll experience it to be one of the finest fucks of all times. Not everyone is fascinated by whips and whipped creams to be turned on; ones inclination towards their partners is a major turn on, no matter how much chocolate sauce you pour in. Not everyone who is into playing kinky is into water sports and not everyone who likes it missionary likes it with the lights off.

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