Is it your first Lohri together after marriage? Know how you can make this auspicious day more joyful.
The first thing that comes to mind when one thinks of Lohri is the warmth; the warmth of the fire, the warmth of the get-together of the family and the warmth of you together with your partner taking the blessings and enjoying the night away with stories, dhol and laughter. Surrounded by the feeling of togetherness, Lohri carries deeper emotion, warmer blessings and memories that you’ll hold close forever. The festival marks the end of winter, the arrival of longer days and the harvest of crops.
For newly married couples, this celebration feels even more special. It’s about thanksgiving celebration, offering prayers for abundance, prosperity and new beginnings, a perfect occasion to take blessings for a happy married life ahead.
As the evening draws nearer, the Lohri fire begins to crackle and glow, setting the scene for an unforgettable night. For you and your partner, this Lohri isn’t just about another festive evening; it’s your first major celebration together, a moment to weave fresh memories into the tapestry of your shared life.
Table of Contents
- Create Your Own Traditions
- Food That Warms the Heart
- Making It Meaningful With Loved Ones
- Capture the Night
Create Your Own Traditions
While many families honour long-standing customs: lighting the bonfire, singing traditional songs like “Sundar Mundriye Hoye,” and offering sesame seeds, popcorn and jaggery to the flames, this year can also be about creating rituals that are uniquely yours.
Here are a few ideas to make your first Lohri celebration as a couple truly special:
1. Personalised Prayer for Your Journey Together
As you and your partner circle the burning fire, take a moment to express gratitude for the past, for each other and for what lies ahead. Traditionally, couples pray for prosperity, harmony and blessings for a joyful life together during the rituals.
2. Joint Offerings
Prepare a small basket with your favourite sweet and savoury treats, like til ladoo, rewri, peanuts and popcorns, to offer to the fire together. Throwing things into the Lohri flames as a pair becomes a symbolic act of unity, letting go of the old and welcoming new beginnings.
3. Dance to Your Own Beat
While folk dances like bhangra and giddha are staples of Lohri night, don’t shy away from cutting a rug with your partner to your favourite tunes. Whether it’s your wedding song or something playful and light, make the moment your own as you sway near the warm firelight.
4. Dress Up with Cultural Flair
Festive attire always adds another layer of joy to the celebrations. Couples often pick outfits that blend tradition with personal style; think vibrant Punjabi suits, cosy ethnic layers or coordinated colours that match the warmth of the bonfire night.
5. Exchange Small tufts or Notes
While Lohri isn’t traditionally a gift-giving festival like Diwali or Raksha Bandhan, this occasion is perfect for surprising your partner with a handwritten note or a small token that signifies gratitude and love; a keepsake of your first Lohri together.
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Food That Warms the Heart
No Lohri night is complete without delicious traditional fare. Seasonal favourites like makki di roti and sarson da saag make the perfect warm feast after an evening by the fire. Sweet treats like til laddoos, gur (jaggery) kheer, gajak, and rewri not only delight your palate but offer a taste of festive culture. Make it special by preparing or sharing these dishes together, turning mealtime into another shared memory.
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Making It Meaningful With Loved Ones
Many newlywed couples choose to celebrate Lohri at the home of their parents or elders to receive heartfelt blessings. Being surrounded by family infuses the occasion with collective warmth and joy, as stories are shared, songs are sung, and blessings are bestowed. Whether you’re hosting the celebration or attending with your partner, involve close family and friends; their presence will make your first Lohri even more memorable.
Capture the Night
Take photos by the bonfire, record snippets of the laughter, and maybe even shoot a small video together. These candid moments: the sparks flying, the colourful outfits, the dancing silhouettes, become treasured keepsakes of your first celebration as a pair.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Question 1: Why is Lohri considered special for newly married couples?
It symbolises new beginnings, prosperity and togetherness, making it especially meaningful for couples starting their married life.
Question 2: What rituals should couples perform during their first celebration together?
Couples usually take rounds around the bonfire, offer til, fur and popcorn and seek blessings for happiness and abundance.
Question 3: Can couples celebrate Lohri privately without a big gathering?
Absolutely! The festival can be celebrated intimately with a small bonfire, simple rituals and quality time together.
Wedding Affair wishes you a very happy first Lohri!
