A month of rain, prayers, and going home: why the first Sawan after marriage feels so special for every couple.
In India, when the skies turn cloudy, the breeze becomes cooler, and the scent of wet earth fills the air with aroma, it means Sawan has arrived. For many Indian families, it is not just another month; it’s a time full of prayers, colours, music and warmth. But do you know why the first Sawan after marriage feels extra special for newlywed couples? Let’s talk about it in the simplest way.
Why is the First Sawan After Marriage Important?
In Indian culture, a newlywed’s Sawan, especially a daughter’s first Sawan after marriage, is very special. After getting married, the bride starts a new life with her husband’s family. But when this auspicious month comes, she usually goes back to her Maayka or parents’ home for a few days.
It is often said and believed that after daughters get married and leave, their parental home sometimes faces troubles. But when she returns to stay during the monsoon (Sawan), many of those problems seem to go away. The home stays blessed, and the family atmosphere remains filled with joy.
Also, the visit isn’t just a custom – it’s emotional. She gets to leave behind new responsibilities for a while, laugh with her siblings, and sit with her parents like she used to.
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How Do Newlyweds and Families Celebrate Sawan?
There are no strict rules as to how newly weds should celebrate this month. It is more or less up to the individual families on how they choose to celebrate and welcome the first shower of rain. But here are a few things that often happen:
- Going to Maayka: Most newly married women spend a part of this month at their parents’ home. It becomes a cherished time to share stories, get pampered, and feel like just a daughter of the home she grew up in.
- Wearing green clothes and bangles: Green is the colour of Sawan. So, in respect to this auspicious day, brides wear green sarees, suits, and bangles, seeking blessings of prosperity, fertility and new beginnings in their marital life. Moreover, the green brings out a radiant glow on the newly wedded bride, which looks beautiful and feels special.
- Fasting and Praying: Many women keep the Sawan Somvar Vrat (fasting) to pray for their husband’s long life and well-being. During this time, many newly weds also visit temples together, offer water and milk to Lord Shiva’s idol or Shivling, and pray together for each other’s well-being.
- Mehendi (Henna): Applying Mehendi to celebrate Sawan is almost like a small festival itself. Friends and sisters sit together, draw designs and patterns on their hands, and talk about everything under the sun.
- Singing and dancing: In some homes, women get together to sing beautiful monsoon folk songs and dance to them, enjoying the serene environment. Moreover, when the sound of dholak, laughter, and songs makes the rainy days feel even warmer, how can one not enjoy?
- Eating seasonal treats: From hot pakoras (fritters) and tea to sweets made at home, food is a big part of this month as well. Every home has its own monsoon delicacy that they make during this season. It signifies the entire family coming together and cherishing simple moments.
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The first Sawan is not only special because of its spiritual significance. More than rituals, it’s about the bonding that the couple shares. It brings them closer and showers a blessing of love and purity over the newlyweds. So, embrace the tradition and celebrate your love this Sawan.
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