What is sexier than taking control of your man in the bedroom? You guessed it right–Nothing!
When it comes to the bedroom, confidence is undeniably the sexiest quality one can possess. No matter the perfect body or the perfect skin, you can elevate it all with a bold and confident personality. It’s magnetic, charming and oh-so-hot.
It is said that women want their partner to take control in bed, way more than men. But that doesn’t mean that women don’t want to be in the driving seat from time to time or men don’t want to be taken control of. And when I say taking control, I don’t mean only hardcore dominatrix activities. No, taking control of your man isn’t only about leather whips and safe words (although that is a great option if you are into that); it can be about being tender, sultry, playful and bold—whatever power your kind of power looks like.
So, if you have ever wanted to flip the script, reverse the role and lead the charge, you have come to the right place. Team Wedding Affair has listed tips for you that will help you take control of your man in bed and show him who’s the boss.
Confidence Is Your Lingerie
Lingerie is hot, and you know it. Before you even touch him, you can woo him with your sultry piece of lingerie. Wear your best lace set with confidence and be the irresistible woman you are. Wearing sexy lingerie makes you seem like the one who knows what they want. Command the room when you walk in, make eye contact, and smell fabulous. Accessorise with a pair of stilettos or dainty jewelleries if you want.
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Take the Lead—Literally
If you want to take control of your man in bed, you need to take the lead actively. Tell him to sit back and relax—this one’s your show. You can tease him a little, just for fun. Blindfold him or pin him down with a grin. Set the tone that you are in charge tonight. Whisper in his ear what you want, guide his hands. Your rules, your rhythm.
Talk Dirty (or Sweet)
Your voice is more powerful than you think it is. It can entice your partner and assert your dominance in bed in a manner that is both captivating and addictive. Use it as a weapon of desire. Tell him what you’re going to do, or what you want him to do. Whispering naughty things, giving commands, or teasing him until he’s begging for more adds a delicious psychological edge.
Use the Pause Button to Tease
If you think seduction needs to be rushed, let me remind you of something: Teasing is way more fun. Take your time and tease. Whether it’s through prolonged eye contact, slow touches, or stopping right before the good part, it puts you in full control in bed. Delay the climax intentionally and make him crave it. Draw out the tension until he is pleading for release.
Flip the Fantasy Script
Got some fantasies, girl? We all do. You can bring those fantasies to life and surprise him with your bold and sensual side. Role-play is the best way to do that. You can also try light bondage or simply try a new position that puts you in charge. You taking the initiative will not only thrill him, but also build a deeper and more daring sexual connection. And remember, these fantasies don’t have to be wild; they just need to be yours.
Make Him Work for It
The last but most important piece of advice is—make your man work for it. Set the boundaries, tell him what he can do and what he can’t. Let him know that he has to earn it. It’s playful, dominating and definitely exciting.
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Go ahead—take control of your man. He won’t just love it. He’ll beg for more.
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