Escape the illusion of “normal” and step into the thrilling world of “kinks” with our roadmap to pleasure.
Much time might elapse between the time we initially uncover something brewing inside us and the point at which we choose to indulge finally. Kink, for so many, exists in this undefined area—sneaky, misunderstood, and oftentimes frightening. What even is “kinky”? Where does one set the boundary between “kinky” and merely “open” or “adventurous”? Mainstream media hasn’t helped clarify the answer. On television, kink gets distilled to caricatures: an outlandish leather-wearing red room complete with over-the-top BDSM toys or pop music icons warbling about shackles in hit singles.
Kink is way more varied and complex than those superficial representations. Today, in this blog created by our team at Wedding Affair, we will navigate this delicious way of discovering your roadmap to pleasure!
Your Kink Manual: Roadmap to Pleasure
Venturing into this experimental erotic adventure can be exciting, but also too much, at least initially. The trick is to begin slowly and gradually get into your desires while keeping things safe, communicative and consensual. Start by trying simple items around the house before moving on to more sophisticated techniques. Kinks can be as simple as adding a blindfold to your repertoire or as complicated as venturing into roleplay fantasies.
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Sensation Play
Sensation Play is possibly one of the most seductive ways to heighten your bedroom experience. By stimulating all five senses—touch, taste, smell, hearing and vision, the arousal can be taken to the next level. BDSM enthusiasts are big on sensation play, which is about cranking up sensory input that extends way past normal genital stimulation. It’s a type of foreplay that builds tension and makes every second feel electric. Blindfold teasing is an excellent starting point for beginners in the kink world. Without needing to acquire any special tools, you can use items from around the home, such as scarves or soft T-shirts, to have a thrilling sensory experience.
Begin by binding your partner’s wrists to a chair or bedpost using loose yet firm knots—you want them loose enough to allow movement but easily released if desired. Next, blindfold them to heighten anticipation. The feeling of each touch will become intensified thereafter. You are able to engage their erogenous zones with some tools: an ice cube for the cool thrill, a feather for a gentle tickle or even warm wax from a candle (make sure it’s body-safe!) for a stronger one. Make the entire act even more unpredictable and thrilling by incorporating some oral stimulation!
Impact Play
As impact play is one of the most favoured forms of kink (granted the aftermath of 50 Shades of Grey), it would be no wonder if it were something you’d want to experiment with to navigate through your roadmap to pleasure. However enticing it may appear on television or appealing it may sound in novels, walking straight into it without preparation will surely not be your best move! So, first begin by learning about this since it is not as easy and enjoyable as it appears on the screen, if not carried out with caution.
Whipping, for example, uses implements such as crops, floggers or whips to impart sensations that may vary from stinging to persistent ones. But, spanking is the easiest method and an excellent starting point since there are no implements required, and the force of blows can be varied based on your partner’s comfort level. Impact Play is a special method of connecting and discovering sensations. Once prepared, you can play around with paddling and caning to relish the pleasurable feeling of pain!
Edge Play
If you are one who enjoys pushing limits by experimenting with something thrilling and taboo, two words could probably tease you to reach your roadmap to pleasure: Edge Play. Though it should be kept in mind that it is not for the faint of heart to experiment with. It is an ideal means of incorporating spices and danger to make you and your partner closer to one another, as well as raise the level of sexual intensity.
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Escape the ordinary and embrace your desires by diving into the deep, dark world of kinks through our roadmap to pleasure.
