Social media is an integral part of popular culture and social life. Especially for 18- to 29-year-olds. Musicians write songs about it, influencers rise to fame on it, and movies are inspired by it. Couples also use social media to document their relationships in photos, from major milestones to the mundane, everyday moments that capture their experiences of togetherness. But are couples’ social media activities true to the reality of their relationships? Here’s what you need to know.
Similarities
One place to begin looking for answers to questions about social media use in relationships is in research on Instagram’s parent company, Facebook. Having a joint relationship status, sharing couple pictures, and posting on a partner’s wall are all indicators of commitment on Facebook. There also tends to be more overlap between partners’ social media profiles (i.e., more mutual friends, pictures, and page likes) when they are invested and committed to the relationship and when they perceive fewer viable romantic alternatives.
More Engagement
Engagement with the relationship on Instagram in terms of the number of couple pictures they posted and the number of likes and comments they received from their partner. When people thought they had high-quality alternatives They kept their couple status more private. From looking at their posts, you might not even know they were in a relationship at all. However, when people were happy in the relationship, it showed in their posts, with those who were more satisfied, invested, and committed engaging more with the relationship in front of their followers on social media.
Yet, it is important to recognize that social media still shows the best of people’s relationships. Generally speaking, big fights and boring evenings at home don’t make for good content. Relationships are complicated, and when people clean them up with filters. The image that’s presented is necessarily incomplete, even in situations where it is mostly accurate.
Alternatives
Although these platforms offers valuable opportunities for couples to maintain relationships. It also connects them with former and potential partners and can serve as a near-constant reminder of their alternatives. This led us to also explore the amount of attention that couples directed to their alternatives on social media by asking about their liking, commenting. Direct messaging behaviors with others on the platform. People who were more aware of their options on social media thought they had higher quality alternatives to their current relationship. They also reported being more likely to actually pursue those options if given the chance.
This doesn’t mean that Facebook/Instagram is causing people to shift their focus away from their partner. Those who are sliding into others’ messaging on social media may very well be exploring their options outside of social media as well. But it does suggest that whether social media is a positive or negative reflection of a couple’s relationship may ultimately depend on the way it is used.
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